Monday, March 9, 2009

Male Distrust Borne out of Lack of Self Confidence

Of late, you have been feeling like in seventh heaven. The girl of your dreams has finally answered your entreaties. She is totally gorgeous and very attractive. You can actually feel the lecherous or admiring stares she gets from other men which even your toughest stares can't ward off. You try your best secure her from them. And all too soon your elation turns to paranoia and anxiety. So you start checking on her at all times where she has been, who she has been with and what she has been up to. When her past relationships are talked about, you blow your top.

You want to act rationally but your jealousy drives you up the wall. You try to hog all her time and attention so you lavish her with gifts expensive vacation, and good time. In return, you hope to control her and cut her off from her previous life, her friends, perhaps even her family. You want her to be always available for you and her girlfriends are beginning to get annoyed with your domineering ways.

What brought about this outpouring of anxiety and distrust? Perhaps from negative experiences in the past and you just want to make sure you will not be duped again. So you do everything to ensure that you become her only source of security and life.

Men's low self-confidence most of the time springs from the feeling that the size of their genitalia is not big enough to satisfy their ladies. This accounts for the success that penis enlargement businesses are enjoying today.

Another source of insecurity could be from perceived lack of material resources. Men cannot help it but feel envy for other men who they believe are above them. Men believe that money can buy everything and the more money they have, the more they can make their women happy with generous presents which make them more appealing.

Men, as women are social creatures and give high importance to what other people feel and think about them. They need to be loved and respected. Specifically, they want to be treated as the only one in their partners' lives and to be loved and desired by that special someone.

How can you go about controlling your jealousy? Take a long look at yourself. Do you like what you see? It might be time to go to the gym to physically shape up or learn new things to become more interesting. If your girlfriend is not giving you any reason to be jealous or insecure, why waste your energy spying on her. If you treat her with love and respect, she would to the same for you. Do no let insecurity and jealousy take up any space in your being because these will eventually ruin your chance of being happy in a relationship.

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