Want to know the real truth about love addiction? It's dangerous. Equally, if not even more so than many other more commonly discussed addictions. Think alcohol or drug dependency is the only addiction that will leave you twisted up in withdrawal, agony and despair when you don't' have them around? Think again! You obviously have never suffered from love addiction....and as those of us who have can attest, the pain can be devastating, destructive and debilitating as well.
So what are the first signs of love addiction?
- Taking risks with your relationship. One of the first signs you have a predisposition to being love addicted manifests when you'll go to great heights, or depths, to be around the person who you crave.
- An intense need to control the actions of another person. Yes, if you feel helpless when your partner leaves your sight, or very insecure when they participate in plans without you, it's a good early indication that problems await. Obviously some people are just very controlling, and NOT love addicted in this scenario as well, but if you find yourself feeling helpless when they're gone, it's a good idea to think about getting some help!
- A lack of self control, and an inability to differentiate what you 'want" versus what you 'need". We all want things in life that we can't have. Wanting them anyway is normal! But turning those wants into necessities is a huge source of trouble, and starts many of us on the proverbial path to confusion, bad behavior and self destruction.
An Open Letter to ANYONE Suffering Through the Devastating Pain and Helplessness of Love Addiction.... And remember......
You don't need to suffer from the destructive and depressing effects of a broken heart one day longer than you choose to!
Did you know that some studies prove that heartbreak can actually shorten your life span by up to 10%? It's true....a broken heart can be ALMOST as dangerous as real heart problems...and if left unchecked, could literally rob you of your future.
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